Friday, 19 May 2017

I am currently sat in bed listening to Lana Del Rey with a glass of Lidl white wine, and it still hasn't sunk in yet that my 4 years at university are over. In that time I've spent a semester living in Florida, a year working in London and a lot of time in bed watching movies, hence this list of movies recommendations for you. I'm going to save the reflecting for a bit later on, once I've left Bournemouth and it's actually hit me that I won't be seeing my friends daily anymore, or drinking caramel frappucino's in the library (there's no Starbucks in Gibraltar) or spending 3 hours in the downstairs room in Cameo. In Easter I kind of went through a quarter life crisis because I didn't know what I was going to do next with my life, I just have a fear of being bored and I never really like staying in the same place for a long time. So I decided to write this post thinking with a positive outlook and what I actually want to achieve in the months coming after finishing university. 

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so what's actually next?

If you're a newbie on the blog or simply don't know much about me, I'm originally from Gibraltar and moved to Bournemouth for University, occasionally coming back to Gib for summer and christmas. So I guess the next step now is to go back to Gibraltar, find a job and save save save. I don't like to plan too far ahead because life can take lots of turns and you never know where it will take you. Ideally I would like to go travelling at the end of next year, or maybe move to Australia, or Canada, or America - who knows! There are many variables. I don't have a definite long-term plan as of yet, but in order for me to feel a sense of achievement here are some short-term goals I want to achieve by the end of this year. 

1. Get my driving license. 

Four years ago my plan was at least to get my theory done before going to university, but frankly I didn't see the point when I would have forgot everything in the months between and I wasn't going to be buying a car to have it sat in my garage gathering dust. I don't really feel the need for driving the car currently because you can pretty much walk everywhere in Gib and buses are free for locals (and my sister can drive me places), but it's best to get it out of the way (and my mum is nagging me to start learning). 

2. Lose 10lbs

So somewhere since Christmas and now I have miraculously lost 8lbs, I only know this because I decided to weigh myself when I went home for Easter, not because I had noticed any difference in the mirror. I think I gained a dress size overall whilst at uni, which isn't horrific considering we're all meant to gain 15lbs at university. So now that I'm done my goal is to get back down to what I was (and lose a little bit extra). If you're looking to shift a bit of weight too, I wrote a blog post on some small changes you can make for a healthier lifestyle. 

3. Save £2000 and pay off my overdraft

I currently have 65p in my savings account, so off to a good start. Working in London on an unpaid placement left me with a big overdraft to pay which I'm now majorly regretting - did I really need a new dress every time I went out? no. I can't do anything about it now other than pay it off! So that will take first priority this year. 

4. Grow my social media following by another 1000.

 I hate how this has to be a point on here cause I'm perfectly happy with the followers I have and interacting with. However everyone in the blogging world knows that brands care just as much (or even more) about how many social media followers you have, and not how good the content you're producing is. Sad but true. I recently started an Instagram page especially for my blog and I'd love for it to get to 1500 by the end of this year, as for twitter 8000 will do! 

5. Find a job. 

I wish blogging could be my full-time job but alas I don't make enough to make a living and pay for 2 kids, my husband, my dog, my villa. So the practical thing to do next is find a job! If anyone wants to hire me I make a decent cup of tea and have plentiful funny stories to tell during lunch time. 

6. Work with one of my favourite brands. 

I thought this sentence looked funny and that's cause I had 'bands' written by accident for the first 10 minutes, but hey that would be fab too. I've got the chance to work with so many great brands this past year and I just hope to collaborate with more and produce great content! 

7. Squeeze in one more trip. 

Here's hoping I get a job then I might be able to fit in a long weekend holiday for my birthday in August and if all goes to plan I will be spending NYE in Barcelona with my best friend! As I said, I don't like being stuck in one place for too long so city breaks are ideal for me, then again Spain is just a stone throw away!

8. Pick up guitar again. 

I'll know if my sister is reading this if I see a message pop up from her saying 'Giana you can only play the G cord' because I did used to write songs and sing them all to the G cord. If I have a lot of time on my hands I'd like to learn how to play properly and then go on to tour the world with Harry Styles. 

9. Graduate!

For some unknown reason, Bournemouth's graduation is November. I think this is so people can repeat exams in the summer and still graduate with their year, but no one is going to get nice photos on the beach in November when it's windy and rainy! Anyway, on to a more serious note my second year semester was a disaster for me for numerous reasons and I ended up with a 2:2, so I've actually tried pretty hard this year and will be quite disappointed in myself if I don't end up graduating with a 2:1, if not it's not the worst thing in the world. So I'm preparing for that and hoping for the best!

Sorry if I've rambled on this one guys! I know a lot of people just read the headings but my blog is like my diary so sometimes I just need to vent. I'd love to know what the next chapter in your lives are! 



  1. Congratulations on getting to the end of your degree. I was so happy when I finished mine but did not have a clue what I wanted to do after and spent months blogging/doing my own business hoping that something would come of it. It didn't and I had to get a full time job, which I do love. Travelling/moving away sounds amazing though. I would love to visit all of those places. xx

    1. Thank you! I think everyone goes through that limbo stage but finds themselves and what they wanna do eventually! xx

  2. Congratulations on getting your degree!! I might be a bit scary but also very exciting!

    Vanessa x |

  3. First of all, congratulations! IT's amazing to finish a degree and I think making a list of what you want to do, is one of the best things to do. Very inspiring post :)

    1. yeah for sure, I always find it better to work towards something and think it's great to have goals! x

  4. Congratulations on finishing Uni, does seem far away to graduate but by then I am sure you will be driving and have a job! Good luck xxxxxx

  5. Oh wow you have at all planned :)

  6. Congratulations on finishing your degree! I graduated in 2015 and still don't have a full time job! It's such an accomplishment to finally finish something you've worked so hard to achieve! Good luck in achieving all of your goals!

    Sian x

    1. I think everyone chooses their own paths after and they're all perfectly fine, not everyone has to have a normal 9-5 job nowadays! xx

  7. Congratulations on getting your degree! I've graduated 2 years and I still don't know what I'm currently doing with my life haha. It's great that you make plans :) xo

  8. Huge congratulations on finishing your degree! It's a fantastic achievement, and you should be really proud of yourself! I'd love to do a bit of travelling myself, Europe would be my destination of choice! It's great to see that you have so many goals to aim for too, you'll smash them!! πŸ’ͺ🏼

    Abbey πŸ’“

  9. Congratulations GG! Those are some big achievements and aspirations. Fingers crossed you get there soon and I amabsolutely certain you will !

    Holly x

  10. Congratulations on your degree! You're going to do amazing! Barcelona is so beautiful!! Goodluck with future plans ! Xx

  11. Woohoo! Congratulations! I hope you can achieve all of these goals :)

    Steph xx

    Steph’s World | Lifestyle Blog |

  12. Congratulations on reaching graduation! I'm only a year away and I'm already have a crisis over what I plan to do next...let's be honest I'll probably do my masters just to spend another year in London. So far I've been lucky enough to avoid putting on any weight...and I've refused to get an overdraft to save me diving headfirst into it and splurging it all on pretty clothes and makeup.
    Alicia x
    Aesthetic Obsessed

  13. It's very difficult to be positive when finishing uni, I remember that feeling of just not knowing what's coming next and feeling really lost but at least you can move back to somewhere you know and have the time to find a career you love! It's great you have so many plans and i hope you achieve all your goals :)

    Rebecca, xo

  14. Congratulations for finishing your degree!

    Charlotte |

  15. Congratulations on graduating! It sounds like you've had an amazing time at university, I'm so glad you enjoyed it.

    This list is so varied and jam packed!! It's amazing that you still want to pursue so many different things. Keep us posted!

  16. Congratulations on graduating lovely!! That is amazing and it sounds like you've had the best university experience. I adore the goals you've set for yourself and I'm more than sure that you're going to be brilliant at achieving them. Sending you so much love and happiness for the next chapter of your life. πŸŒΈπŸ’—✨

    With love, Alisha Valerie. x |

  17. Firstly, congratulations on finishing your degree. You're now in the fabulous position of being able to choose where live takes you next and that can be really exciting. It sounds like you've got lots of plans and ideas. Wishing you lots of luck in the next chapter of your life.

  18. CONGRATULATIONS!! I am in completely the same position having just finished my 3 year degree! I understand the relief but also the stress that come with saying you've finished your degree! You've done better than me, I have no idea when my graduation is! I look forward to seeing the pictures!


  19. Big congratulations! I remember graduating and how scary it was. Please remember it is normal to feel a little lost afterwards, but you're on to a good thing planning some goals, that will help. Just enjoy having all the opportunities ahead of you and try not to worry too much if things don't seem to go to plan right away. Things will happen when they're meant to. I do think unpaid internships should be illegal though- fair pay for fair work I say! X

    Sarah |

  20. Good luck with your goals! Don't forget to take some time to celebrate your achievement. Congratulations on your graduation.

    Please tell me your secret when it comes to growing your social media. :') I seem to be stuck despite working so hard on it.

    V <3

  21. Aah congratulations on finishing! And best of luck in the future no matter where it may take you :) Graduating was such a scary time for me, and I'm not gonna lie- 4 years later I am not exactly where I thought I would be, but I'm getting there slowly but surely.

    Lauren | Lauren the Daydreamer

  22. Congrats on finishing your degree! It's such a great feeling, but also terrifying! I did the same - I moved home and saved up to move abroad, and, as you know, I'm now living in South Korea! I have no doubts that you can achieve the things you aspire to. Good luck! xx



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